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About Me Member Nature Photographer Mary K.S.26/Female/United States Recent Activity Deviant for 1 Year
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NO longer hiding who I am

Thu Nov 19, 2009, 3:06 PM
  • Mood: Pride
  • Reading: Spice and Wolf
  • Watching: Official "Legend of Zelda" LAMT 2009
  • Playing: The Secret of Solstice RPG
  • Eating: Nothing
  • Drinking: Chocolate Soy Milk
I have decided being myself is what matters most.
(I may not be someone whom is a bitch, nor is a hardhearted bad ass.)

Being a sweetheart, gentle, calming, having nobility, Morality, protecting others to standing up to what is right, kind and a romantic of heart is not a bad thing.
For a few years I have felt a man of my dreams, would prefer someone whom is bluntly-harsh to does not give a damn..but I was wrong. I am strong, but not in the crude way. There is nothing wrong with being cute, dainty, intelligent, and ladylike.. ^^ From now on, I shall be fully myself. Elegant, free flowing like the soft-spring winds.. <3 I love flowers, sweet things, fairy-tales, dreaming, to the sunshine days..

I am not a fan of violence nor being rude to mean.
(The moonlight and natural beauty of things, is wonderful.)

People have told me to change from what I am and the interests I like; which reflects me. (Why? this only causes me to suffer, loose my peace of heart-mind and be in constant emotional pain.) Plus, I could turn off a gentleman whom is looking for a lady just like me. I have found this from my own prior experiences, this is indeed true.

For what man in his right mind, would find it flattering to have a woman whom is mean to him and does not really care? (There are way too many women out there who are shown, that men are allured to women who are slutty and mean.) Well, honestly those are not men whom are really looking for a lady to settle down with nor ever consider as a 'life-long significant other.' A real man, does not go for bitches.. this is just a false-hype, all women are perceived to believe is true.

I have heard way too-many times, from friends of mine who are guys: "They are looking for a decent all-around nice girl." They are fed up will all of the women whom are 'this and that' within negativity. A girl who they can trust, and can really talk to without the fears of being used nor emotionally hurt... A woman who is soft, sweet and kind. Someone they can show their vulnerability to without judgment nor criticism. A woman who accepts them for who and what they are. :)
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"Being a lady whom is both a knight in shinning armor to both a priestess is never something to look down upon in self-hatred."


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I have done somethings which is considered: "Adultive".. (Which I have found all times, are not.) Going to drinking parties, to participating in things which is truly not good.. Is childish and for people whom are not like me. From my journeys and travels, I have realized how rare I am.. in a very-good way.

I am no-longer in fear, that by being who I am is a turn-off to the world, it's people nor someone whom could love me in the future. :heart:
(Society has made me feel this way; that by being a sweetheart and all around really-nice person, is a weakness.) When this is a lie. I was told, over the years that I was 'cute' ..within the representation of what would not attract someone to considering me in a relationship.. They would always see me as a child. I.E.: No man would take me seriously, nor see me as a beautiful woman.

For I have come to terms within truth:
I have always been a lady (woman) all along. ^___^
Many people have told me: "Any man would be truly happy and blessed to have you in his life." :heart: I never took it to heart, in truth.. Until now.

:heart: :rose:

It is okay to be yourself.
(Show who you fully are without any fears.) :sun:


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Thanks a lot :kiss: :aww: :hug:

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all I got to be is, be happy
all it's got to take is some warmth to make it
blow away, blow away, blow away '
George Harrison - ' Blow away ' :heart:
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and thank you for the :+fav: (:

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thank you so much Mary!

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:iconglompglompplz: A huge thank you for the :+fav:es and the :+devwatch: dear! Have a great day! :iconpoofsplz:

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